From the Pastor’s Wife

Here is a list of things Mrs. Nancy Wilson gleaned from Pastor Wilson’s sermon this past Lord’s Day. If you want to listen to the sermon you can find it here. Her comments were worth posting in full. So I did. All the following is from her blog.

Today the sermon was on Romans 13:8-10 particularly verse 8, “Owe no man any thing, but to love one another.” Here are some highlights from the application:
1. Don’t abuse your family. Do you swipe money or stuff from your parents (or siblings) and figure that it’s all in the family?

2. Just because you wouldn’t mind if someone swiped twenty out of your purse doesn’t mean they won’t mind if you swipe twenty out of theirs. So don’t abuse the Golden Rule. Just because you think you wouldn’t mind if they broke your lawnmower doesn’t mean that they won’t mind that you just broke theirs. Repair it and return it.

3. Words are free. The debtor should be chasing the lender, not the other way around. If you owe someone money, chase them down and tell them you will pay them as soon as you can. And keep chasing them down regularly to tell them you are working on it. In the world, the creditor always has to chase down the debtor.Christians should be known for their honesty.

4. Don’t abuse the passage of time. Just because you borrowed the money a long time ago doesn’t mean it is now paid. A poor memory is not the same thing as a good conscience.

5. Don’t measure your neighbor’s love with the yardstick of your debts. His love is not your business. Your business is whether you are loving him and obeying God by taking care of your debts.

6. Don’t nickle and dime your friends to death. Kids do this. Can I borrow a quarter? A pencil? You must return what you borrow and not presume on the friendship. Your friends won’t like it. You will become known as a mooch.

7. Just because the person you owe has a nicer house or a nicer car than you do does not mean you don’t have to pay them. Physicians often only receive half the money owed them, and you don’t know whether they are having a hard time making payroll. Pay your bills regardless of what you think their needs may be. Their needs are not the point and not your business.

8. Don’t ask businessmen and women to mentor your kids for free just because we are all members of a tight-knit community. Don’t bring your sick kitty to the church potluck to ask the vet in the congregation for free advice.

9. How many of the books on your shelves (or dvd’s) belong to someone else? Return them. If you don’t, you are a thief.

10. If you break something you borrowed, replace it. Don’t return it broken and say, “Oh well, we’re friends, she won’t mind.” Enough with “Christians aren’t perfect, just forgiven.” That’s not an excuse for not paying your bills.

Back To It

I let the blog slide while I decided what the exact purpose of it was. I also needed to deal with other projects. Now I have determined to get back to it with a renewed sense of purpose and direction. Enjoy!

God as Victim and Judge

“We should not think of Hell merely in terms of offended justice, as if God sits and dispenses impartial judgment on the damned. Quite the contrary. God is the principle victim as well as the prosecutor and judge. He vehemently presses His complaint. He prosecutes the case with ardor. He judges in righteous indignation. God is a jealous God whose love has been betrayed. There is no room in the Biblical doctrine of final judgment for a passionless application of law by blindfolded justice. God sees, feels, and acts with the full passion of His infinite Person.”

(Ralph Smith, Trinity and Reality, p. 190)

Repentance, the New Birth and Good Works

“Throughout our life, then, we are to reflect on the fact that we are dead to sin and to ourselves, in order to live for Christ and his righteousness. And seeing that this process of rebirth is never completed as long as we are prisoners in this mortal body, we should be careful to continue repenting until we die.” (John Calvin, Truth for All Time, p. 33)

“In short; we must conclude that the great value of union with Christ is found not only in the fact that we are freely justified because of it, but also in the fact that our works are considered as righteous and are recompensed with an eternal reward.” (John Calvin, Truth for All Time, p. 35)

G.A. Henty Quotes

It has taken my family a long time, but we have finally begun reading some of the historical fiction by G.A. Henty. I am not sure why we have waited so long. The books are excellent, well-written, full of virtue, nobility and violence. My boys have really enjoyed the ones they have read. I am currently reading St. George for England, a story set in the late 1300’s. Here are a couple of my favorite quotes from the book. The first quote is from a chapter describing a “mock” siege of a castle by young men (ages 15-20?) during a tournament in the city. Remember this is “pretend” war, not real war.

“In spite of armour and mail, many serious wounds had been inflicted and some of the combatants had already been carried senseless from the field. Some of the assailants had been shaken by being thrown backward from the ladders into the moat, one or two were hurt to death; but as few tourneys took place without the loss of several lives this was considered but a small amount of damage for so stoutly fought a melee, and the knowledge that many were wounded, and some perhaps dying, in no way damped the enthusiasim of the spectators who cheered lustily for some minutes at the triumph the city had obtained.”

This second quote is from earlier in the book where two men are discussing the effect of war upon women. The discussion moves however, to the topic of heroes. The last part of the quote really struck me as an accurate description of our society. The people admired and honored in our culture are rarely those who have done valiant deeds, but rather those who are rich and weathly, particularly movies stars, musicians, and politicians. These have earned the status of high priest on our society. The other interesting aspect of the quote is that the man is saying that greed for wealth causes one to cease doing great deeds. Greed makes one a coward.

“Women suffer most from wars, no doubt…and yet do you mark that they are more stirred by deeds of valour and chivalry than are we men; that they are ever ready to bestow their love upon those who have won honour and glory in war, even although the next battle may leave them widows. This has been always somewhat of a marvel to me; but I suppose that it is human nature, and that admiration for deeds of valour and bravery is ingrained in heart of man and will continue until such times come that the desire for wealth, which is ever on the increase, has so seized on all men that they will look with distaste upon everything which can interfere with the making of money and will regard the man who amasses gold by trading as a higher type than he who does valiant deeds in battle.”